beauty is only inside

i had a discussion with a tweetieboo today and got to thinking about beauty and where it lives in people. my feelings on beauty pretty much all stem from my childhood. i believe that’s true for most people.

i know people that grew up listening to how pretty they are and when they get older, they have no clue about what real life is about. no concept of spirituality. many of them think that the world OWES them a whole bunches of favors because they look so good. [chile please] everything stops on the surface and there is [clearly] not much there that actually counts. *side-eye*

on the other hand. those that grew up hearing - ‘you’re ugly’, etc… usually become adults that harbor a very deep self-hatred as well as a bitter grudge towards society.

either way- a recipe for disaster.

be very careful what you compliment about your children….. it will silently guide them through their whole life.