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    • Dec
      21
      2009

      close your legs to married men

      Written by eLbie in zEn at 9:40 am on Dec, 21 2009

      hi honies. unfortunately this blog is gonna be about tiger’s cheatin’ [caublasian.. i.e NON-BLACK] ass. smh.

      i had the misfortune of watching the ’special’ on his sorry little rich life and let’s just say tiger’s been running through the ladies something FIERCE. im sorry but it just disgusts me that wealthy men have the leeway to do shit like this. furthermore, i HATE the women that allow these shenanigans to continue to ruin fidelity and loyalty all across the WORLD.

      what KILLS me is on of the little girls that actually ‘got mad’ when she ‘found out’ that he had ‘other girls’

      BIIIIIIIIIIITCH!!!!!! u ARE an ‘other girl’ !!!!!!!!!! how dare u think that a MARRIED MAN is yours in the first place???

      he didn’t even trick off on you.
      ”he didn’t ever send me flowers or buy me ANYTHING”
      [u's a DUMB SLUT] did you really think that he was gonna leave his wife and SMALL KIDS to be with your cheap hotel-hoin ass???? chile- stop the madness.

      silly ho, go and rake some leaves or something. it’s the least u can do after u have helped wreck so many homes.

      girl, BYE.

      word to the youngins…. the one that gets a RING ON IT, is the classy bitch that makes a man WORK for her and COURT her properly. giving it up after 2 hours of ‘bottle-poppin’ will have u still singing ’single ladies’ on top of a couch in VIP at your 50th birthday.

      that is NOT the business.

      mmmkthanksbye.

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      Dec
      20
      2009

      sunday’s reflections…

      Written by eLbie in zEn at 7:48 pm on Dec, 20 2009


      :currently: in my room. in a beautiful and snowy harlem =)

      :listenin to: “i know that u know, that we are… ready for love ” [caught up ~ teedra.moses]

      :feelin like: i want to hold on to this innocence. this newness. the unknown. the unanswered. i don’t want to feel [later on] that i want to rewind time.

      :thinkin about: ♥ ~~>love. and how it inspires me as much as it destroys me. every time i have ever been full of love, there has eventually been a casualty [me]. the love i have in my life these days kinda scares me. it’s so good and on point that i am LOOKING for something wrong. fear is a liar but it is here sometimes. but i won’t be too scared to let it just BE.

      :wishin: couldn’t possibly wish for anything right now… i have all that i need.. i am all that i have.. all that is FOR me, will eventuaLLy be MINE.

      :reflectin on: the fact that i am living my dreams and have sometimes actually said that i’m ‘not there yet’ — i will NOT be ungrateful.

      :lovin: my cypher. those that are involved in my daily rituals [you know who you are] my days cant ever be complete without your presence.

      :learnin: that change is good…. move with it… accept it even if it doesn’t make ’sense’ to you. stop asking ‘WHY?’ and just DO what you gotta do based on the information you already have.

      :livin: … life the best way i know how. doing what i love as if nobody is watching.

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      Dec
      18
      2009

      ‘kept woman’ nobody wanna ‘keep’

      Written by eLbie in zEn at 9:40 am on Dec, 18 2009


      lately i’ve been coming across some very YOUNG behavior in the ones that are older and know better. smh

      so what’s up with the self-entitled chicks that always want something for nothing??? i’m sorry but- huh??? how rude is that??? u just expect somebody to ‘take care’ of your bills forrrrrrrrrrr….. what exactly??? what’s in it for them??? — your warm body occupying SPACE. ummmm>> yea>>> NO.

      now don’t get it twisted. i am a firm believer in “if you have it, u BETTER share the effin’ wealth with your boo” . i do not condone relationships that are not partnerships. if we can build together and GROW, why not???

      but back to the silly little girls.

      newsflash boo, you’re chasing him, he’s chasing his money… buttterrrummm… who’s chasing YOU?

      precisely.

      it’s not cute to fake who u are and what u have in order to get with somebody that has their sh*t together. lying cuz u KNOW that if they really knew you ain’t got a pot to piss in, they wouldn’t give you the time of day much less pay your late ass rent.

      its called using people and it’s U-G-L-Y.

      upgrade yourSELF. spoil yourSELF. work hard for yourSELF. then maybe… juuuuust maybe, you will inspire your next boo to follow suit.

      mmk???? thanks.

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      Dec
      16
      2009

      why i don’t like you

      Written by eLbie in zEn at 9:08 am on Dec, 16 2009

      i ain’t nobody. so why do you care? mmmHMMM.

      it trips me out how many people are just not my type. i’m just not the type to entertain you on the surface, if i’m not feeling you DEEP. plain and simple. ain’t nothing shallow about me.

      i have had many instances of people that wanted to develop some sort of superficial friendship and i’m not the one for those. don’t get me wrong, i’m ALL for networking and things that are BUSINESS-oriented. butterrrrummmm, otherwise??? umm NO.

      i’m not impressed with your big-body designer car, designer shoes, bags that cost more than your rent, or the fact that you know every name of every designer from here to milan. chile BYE.

      i’m JUST NOT INTO IT.

      just because i am perceived as ‘attractive’ and ‘put together’ and i CARE about what i look like, does NOT mean i am shallow and/or materialistic. by no means does it mean anything even CLOSE, so please don’t get it twisted.

      little does anybody know what i find to be ‘fun’ or what i will actually spend my precious TIME doing and thinking about. it would probably be considered very BORING to many of y’all.

      i find it highly annoying that i am judged by how i look. whether u think i’m gorgeous or ‘ugly’ - i had NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!!

      i had absolutely nothing to do with how my DNA formed and shaped my physical appearance. so i refuse to take ‘credit’ for it or use it to form relationships.. that’s tired and LATE.

      i’m over all y’all fake “FABULOUS” people that don’t have depth beyond the shopping bags you carry. the empty interactions that you continuously have with those that you find are ‘cute’ or ‘can dress’ are really annoying and i wish you would keep that bamma shit over there…. [over where?] BACK THERE.

      get a life.

      *gone to meditate so i can cleanse myself of these vibes*

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      Dec
      7
      2009

      freedom

      Written by eLbie in zEn at 12:29 pm on Dec, 7 2009

      [i promise i’m gonna get some sort of phone call about this post]
      ~~> and i promise i won’t pick up.

      it’s been some time since i felt free. i would venture to say, i have never TRULLY felt free. stolen moments of temporary bliss…maaaaybe. but FREE? … smh… naw.

      my question is: WHY do i have to steal it, and WHY does it have to be so temporary????

      i cant.

      in my ‘old’ age, i’ve been drinking cup after cup of ‘i don’t-give-a-fuk juice’ and let me tell you honies, it’s been getting me RIGHT. slowly, but surely, i am unlocking those chains that have had my mind, body, and soul locked up ever since i was BORN.

      for me, the chains have been mostly blamed on ‘culture’. being born in another country and having to call the u.s.of.a home for the past 20 something years, comes with plenty complications that only a FEW of my fellow ‘international transplants’ can understand.

      you are first faced with the monumental task of assimilating into a completely foreign society, and then you have to [somehow] remember to honor and respect where you came FROM. it goes without saying that the 2 are conflicting interests, a lot more than not.

      add to that, the fact that the human struggle [to find oneself] is a major task all by itself, and what do you have??? a royal MESS chile, that’s what.

      back to me tho [this is MY blog after all] all those unspoken restrictions have not only made me stressed beyond belief, but have also [dangerously] stifled my creativity. oh HEYL naw. THAT is a major violation and i blame myself, really, for entertaining the BS. but even a princess is HUMAN. *sigh*

      it’s cool tho. mama is ready to come out of her shell and frankly, i don’t give a DAMN who isn’t ready for it. get your bells & whistles [or barf bags] ready cuz when i come OUT…. it’s gonna be with a BANG.

      bloooooop!

      p.s. happy birthday to my talula -preeya. love you girl!!!! happy FAB 33!!!! *hugs*

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